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PostSubject: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Wed Feb 24, 2010 1:22 pm

1. Qhia koj txoj kev hlub (Show love)

Txhob cia koj txoj kev hlub rau nws yaj. Txawm koj khwv khwv koj muaj dej num ntau los nco ntsoov tias koj tsis yog yuav koj txoj haujlwm. Koj yuav koj pojniam or tus txiv. Yog ntev lawm, koj tus hlub tsis hnov koj los lus zoo ces yuav ua rau nws xav tias koj tsis hlub. Ib los lus zoo xwb twb txhawb nws lub zog lawm.



2. Tsis txhob yws yws (Don’t nag)

Koj yuav tsum paub tias txhuab tus tib neeg, nyias muaj nyias qhov siab ntev thiab uv tau. Yog koj pheej yws thiab thawb (push) nws mus dhau qhov nws uv tau ces teeb meem yuav tshwm los. Tsis txhob pheej yws koj tus hlub kom nws ua li koj siab nyiam xwb. Txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis txawj xav thiab tsis paub ua.



3. Saib koj tus khub rau nqi (Respect your partner)

Koj saib nws muaj nqis ces koj tau txoj kev muaj nqis thiab. Nco ntsoov tias nws tseem yog nws tus neeg thaum ub li qub txawm tias neb twb ua txwj nkawm lawm. Yog koj txawj saib nws rau nqis ces neb txoj kev sib hlub yuav muaj nyob laus laus.



4. Txawj sib kho (resolve)

Yog muaj lus tsis sib nkag siab lawm, txhob cia rau lwm zaum mam li tham dua. Yuav tsum sib tham kom nkag siab rau lub sijhawm ntawd thiab thaum neb tseem nyob ntawd ua ke. Tsis txhob muab yav tag los yws ntxiv rau qhov teeb meem no. Yuav tsum txawj sib zam.



5. Yuav tsum muaj kev sib tham kom nkag siab (Communicate)

Sib tham li neb sib tham tau. Nws yuav sib rub tau neb los sib ze thiab sib nkag siab. Tej kev sib tham muaj nqis tshaj ces twb yog thaum koj nrog koj tus khub tham ua ke.



6. Tso siab rau (Be)

Txoj kev sib hlub kom nyob ruaj nreeg yuav tsum yog kev ntseeg siab thiab muaj txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg zoo tag tag ces koj yuav tsum accept tau nws li nws yog nws rau qhov phem thiab qhov zoo ntawm nws. Txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub yuav ua koj tus hlub yog ib qhov tseem ceeb tshaj.



7. Yuav tsum txawj tuaj sib ntsib ib nrab kev (compromise)

Txhua tus yuav tsum txawj compromise nyob tau nws lub neej. Koj yuav ua li koj lub siab xav thiab ntshaw los ntawv lwm tus kom koj zoo siab rau koj xwb tsis tau. Yog koj txawj compromise ces tus neeg ntawd yuav txawj muab tau txoj kev kaj siab rau koj thiab.



8. Muaj caij rau neb (Take a break)

Tseg ib sijhawm rau neb ua ke. Lub sijhawm ntawd tsis yog yuav los siv nyiaj. Tsuav muaj ib lub sijhawm rau neb los nyob uake tham xwb yeej zoo lawm..







9. Yam ceem ceeb (special)

Koj yuav ua dabtsi los xij, tabsis nco ntsoov txog hnub tseem ceeb. Nco txog hnub yug los sis anniversary ( hnub sib yuav). Nws yog ib qhov ceem ceeb heev es yuav pab neb txoj kev hlub loj zuj zus. Ua li nov yuav ua qhia neb tias neb lub neej tseem yuav muaj qhov zoo siab nplua mia txiv tuaj no.



10. Tsis txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis paub (Don’t underestimate)

Txawm koj tus hlub ua tej yam me me kev zoo siab rau koj xwb los koj yuav tsum zoo siab hlo thiab txhawb nws. Tsis txhob xav tias nws ua tsis tau dabtsi li. Yog koj xav li ces yuav ua rau neb txoj kev hlub mluas. Txawj txhawb nws yuav ua rau neb zoo siab thiab paub tias nws los yog neeg tseem ceeb thiab yuav pab rau neb lub neej zoo. Neb yuav nyob hauv lub nkoj niam txiv zoo siab hlub mus tag tiam.
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Wed Feb 24, 2010 1:26 pm

Wow! Yeebtsim mas tshajlij tiag tiag li os, heheehehe,

Yog lawm, koj yuavtsum tuaj qhia Npauj Npaim thiaj txawj hlub Yeebtsim nawd,
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Wed Feb 24, 2010 9:02 pm

Ntsia nws ob lub qhov muag rau nws lub ntsejmuag thaum nws tig los saib kuv xwb, kuv yeej paub nws xav tau li kuv xav. Saib nws ob lub qhov muag ntsai ruj rawv xwb nws yeej qhia tau rau kuv tias nws los twb tos kuv ntev npaum li kuv tos nws lawm thiab. Yog li txoj kev sib hlub yuav tsis tsis txhob zais cia rau nruab siab xwb. Yuav tsuam muab tau los piav thiab qhia, nws thiaj li paub tias muaj tiag.
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Thu Feb 25, 2010 6:42 am

Wow!!! Tus nus Yeebtsim,

Ua tsaug rau koj cov zoo lus muaj txiaj ntsig nawb....yog leej twg txawj khaw yuav khaw tau coj mus siv.....nkawm txij nkawm ntawv yuav nyob tau kajsiab.....kuv los yuav khaw coj mus ua neej kom kuv lub neej nyob tau mus vam meej...heheheeee

Nej cov txawj na kav tsij tuaj qhia peb ua neej thiab nawb...tus nus..hehheee........
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:13 am

Kuv xav tias yog nkauj nraug los sis niam txiv es txawj ua li sauv no.. yuav yog true love li lawv tej laus hais os.

Luag tias kev sib hlub yog dabtsi? Kuv tias kev sib hlub ces yog 2 leeg txawj sib txhawb zog, txawj hais lus. Nws yog koj tug phoojywg zoo tshaj thiab txawj pab txhawb koj lub zog. Saib koj rau nqi thiab paub txo hwjchim. Cov niam txiv zoo li nov es ib tug tuag lawm los ib tug thiaj li tseem niaj hnub mus quaj tom toj ntxas.
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:45 am

Yeejtsim a!

Cas nws yuav txawm hais tau los sib hlub or true love ntawm ib nkawm niam txiv los yog nkauj nraug ua luaj na......yog lawm laub yom.....yog nkawm niam txiv los yog nkauj nraug ntawv txawj txawj sib lub sib hais lus txhawb zog ma thaum tsis muaj ib tug lawm ib tug tsis pom qab nyob li tiag.....wowow....nej os...zoo siab muaj koj tuaj qhia peb...cia peb mam kawm coj mus ua neej laub.......nyob rau koj hnub no os Yeebtsim...
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Thu Feb 25, 2010 1:44 pm

yeebtsim wrote:
1. Qhia koj txoj kev hlub (Show love)

Txhob cia koj txoj kev hlub rau nws yaj. Txawm koj khwv khwv koj muaj dej num ntau los nco ntsoov tias koj tsis yog yuav koj txoj haujlwm. Koj yuav koj pojniam or tus txiv. Yog ntev lawm, koj tus hlub tsis hnov koj los lus zoo ces yuav ua rau nws xav tias koj tsis hlub. Ib los lus zoo xwb twb txhawb nws lub zog lawm.



2. Tsis txhob yws yws (Don’t nag)

Koj yuav tsum paub tias txhuab tus tib neeg, nyias muaj nyias qhov siab ntev thiab uv tau. Yog koj pheej yws thiab thawb (push) nws mus dhau qhov nws uv tau ces teeb meem yuav tshwm los. Tsis txhob pheej yws koj tus hlub kom nws ua li koj siab nyiam xwb. Txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis txawj xav thiab tsis paub ua.



3. Saib koj tus khub rau nqi (Respect your partner)

Koj saib nws muaj nqis ces koj tau txoj kev muaj nqis thiab. Nco ntsoov tias nws tseem yog nws tus neeg thaum ub li qub txawm tias neb twb ua txwj nkawm lawm. Yog koj txawj saib nws rau nqis ces neb txoj kev sib hlub yuav muaj nyob laus laus.



4. Txawj sib kho (resolve)

Yog muaj lus tsis sib nkag siab lawm, txhob cia rau lwm zaum mam li tham dua. Yuav tsum sib tham kom nkag siab rau lub sijhawm ntawd thiab thaum neb tseem nyob ntawd ua ke. Tsis txhob muab yav tag los yws ntxiv rau qhov teeb meem no. Yuav tsum txawj sib zam.



5. Yuav tsum muaj kev sib tham kom nkag siab (Communicate)

Sib tham li neb sib tham tau. Nws yuav sib rub tau neb los sib ze thiab sib nkag siab. Tej kev sib tham muaj nqis tshaj ces twb yog thaum koj nrog koj tus khub tham ua ke.



6. Tso siab rau (Be)

Txoj kev sib hlub kom nyob ruaj nreeg yuav tsum yog kev ntseeg siab thiab muaj txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg zoo tag tag ces koj yuav tsum accept tau nws li nws yog nws rau qhov phem thiab qhov zoo ntawm nws. Txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub yuav ua koj tus hlub yog ib qhov tseem ceeb tshaj.



7. Yuav tsum txawj tuaj sib ntsib ib nrab kev (compromise)

Txhua tus yuav tsum txawj compromise nyob tau nws lub neej. Koj yuav ua li koj lub siab xav thiab ntshaw los ntawv lwm tus kom koj zoo siab rau koj xwb tsis tau. Yog koj txawj compromise ces tus neeg ntawd yuav txawj muab tau txoj kev kaj siab rau koj thiab.



8. Muaj caij rau neb (Take a break)

Tseg ib sijhawm rau neb ua ke. Lub sijhawm ntawd tsis yog yuav los siv nyiaj. Tsuav muaj ib lub sijhawm rau neb los nyob uake tham xwb yeej zoo lawm..







9. Yam ceem ceeb (special)

Koj yuav ua dabtsi los xij, tabsis nco ntsoov txog hnub tseem ceeb. Nco txog hnub yug los sis anniversary ( hnub sib yuav). Nws yog ib qhov ceem ceeb heev es yuav pab neb txoj kev hlub loj zuj zus. Ua li nov yuav ua qhia neb tias neb lub neej tseem yuav muaj qhov zoo siab nplua mia txiv tuaj no.



10. Tsis txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis paub (Don’t underestimate)

Txawm koj tus hlub ua tej yam me me kev zoo siab rau koj xwb los koj yuav tsum zoo siab hlo thiab txhawb nws. Tsis txhob xav tias nws ua tsis tau dabtsi li. Yog koj xav li ces yuav ua rau neb txoj kev hlub mluas. Txawj txhawb nws yuav ua rau neb zoo siab thiab paub tias nws los yog neeg tseem ceeb thiab yuav pab rau neb lub neej zoo. Neb yuav nyob hauv lub nkoj niam txiv zoo siab hlub mus tag tiam.

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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Fri Feb 26, 2010 4:04 am

Wow.....Yeebtsim, koj cov nqe lus mas zoo kawg li os. Xav kom sawv daws tuaj muab tswv yim txog ib nqe zuj zus tham kom txaus siab kiag no ntshe yuav lom zem heev li os.
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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Fri Feb 26, 2010 1:27 pm

Nyobzoo os, Nujqiam,

Koj nyiam kom peb ibtug teb zujzus tiag lod? Uali, kuv mam tuaj teb txog kuv qhov kev xav rau nej tuaj nyeem.
Yog li koj puas tuaj teb koj txojkev xav rau peb paub thiab os?


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PostSubject: Re: Kev txwj nkawm yuav tsum txawj ua li nov   Fri Feb 26, 2010 1:32 pm

Yeebtsim, kuv yuav teb koj cov lus li uas qhov kuv paub thiab nyiam.
Npauj Npaim tsuas teb li qhov kuv pom thiab xav xwb, yog teb tsis raug nej siab los thov zamchim mog.


1. Qhia koj txoj kev hlub (Show love)
Txhob cia koj txoj kev hlub rau nws yaj. Txawm koj khwv khwv koj muaj dej num ntau los nco ntsoov tias koj tsis yog yuav koj txoj haujlwm. Koj yuav koj pojniam or tus txiv. Yog ntev lawm, koj tus hlub tsis hnov koj los lus zoo ces yuav ua rau nws xav tias koj tsis hlub. Ib los lus zoo xwb twb txhawb nws lub zog lawm.



Kuv xav li no, yus yog tus ntshaw kom nws hlub hlub yus ces yus yuavtsum ua tus pib qhia nws tias yus hlub nws ua ntej.
Txhua tagkis uas yus sawv, yuavtsum tig mus hnia nws ib pas ntawm nws lub qhovncauj kiag, mam li sawv. Yus sawv los npaj tshais thiab mov rau nws thim su tag, yuav tau mus hais nws los noj mov thiab muab qhov su rau nws ces hnia nws ib pas ua ntej nws mus ua haujlwm.
Yog niamtxiv lawm, tej kev zoo yus ua rau nws no yog nws hlub yus tiag, yeej tsis ua rau nws ntxub yus li.

2. Tsis txhob yws yws (Don’t nag)
Koj yuav tsum paub tias txhuab tus tib neeg, nyias muaj nyias qhov siab ntev thiab uv tau. Yog koj pheej yws thiab thawb (push) nws mus dhau qhov nws uv tau ces teeb meem yuav tshwm los. Tsis txhob pheej yws koj tus hlub kom nws ua li koj siab nyiam xwb. Txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis txawj xav thiab tsis paub ua.

Kuv xav tias nws thiab yus yog neeg laus ibyam lawm, yuavtsum tsis txhob sib yws. Koj yuavtsum muab koj nyob rau nws qhov chaw, seb yog nws yws koj no koj puas nyiam thiab. Yog koj tsis nyiam ces koj yuavtsum tsis txhob yws nws ibyam xwb. Kev yws, muaj ntau yam ua rau nkawd sib yws yog tias ua neej tsis muaj kev hlub thiaj muaj kev sib yws xwb. Yog nkawd muaj kev sibhlub lawm, yuavtsum tsis muaj lus sib yws.

3. Saib koj tus khub rau nqi (Respect your partner)
Koj saib nws muaj nqis ces koj tau txoj kev muaj nqis thiab. Nco ntsoov tias nws tseem yog nws tus neeg thaum ub li qub txawm tias neb twb ua txwj nkawm lawm. Yog koj txawj saib nws rau nqis ces neb txoj kev sib hlub yuav muaj nyob laus laus.

Qhov no tseemceeb heev li. Kev yuav saib kom nws muaj nqe lossis yus muaj nqe ntawd, yuavtsum yog kev sib fwm los ntawm kev hais lus zoo. Yog tias kuv hu koj luagntxhi thiab hais lolus zoo tawm tuaj rau koj hnov tag li xwb, koj yuavtsum pom kuv muaj nuj nqes thiab. Yog muaj kev sibhlub lawm, thaum yus tus hlub hais tej lus zoo, yus yeej paub. Yus yuavtsum tsis txhob lam tau lam yws nws tias yus mas nim ntxub ntxub thiab dhuav dhuav nws tej me lus mos ntawd li tsis xav hnov in public lossis cem rau lwmtus hnov.
Yog koj tsis nyiam nws tej lolus twg, koj yuavtsum ua tibzoo qhia kom nws txhob hais tej lus ntawd thaum muaj neeg nyob ze neb. Yog nws hlub koj, nws yeej yuav mloog koj hais thiab hais tej lus koj xav hnov xwb. Tsis hais lub sijhawm neb ob leeg xwb lossis muaj neeg coob, nws yuavtsum hais hom lus uas koj xav hnov, yog neb muaj kev sibhlub lawm neb yeej paub sib fwm na.
Koj fwm kuv li kuv fwm koj ces yeej tsis sib rhuav in public li na.

4. Txawj sib kho (resolve)
Yog muaj lus tsis sib nkag siab lawm, txhob cia rau lwm zaum mam li tham dua. Yuav tsum sib tham kom nkag siab rau lub sijhawm ntawd thiab thaum neb tseem nyob ntawd ua ke. Tsis txhob muab yav tag los yws ntxiv rau qhov teeb meem no. Yuav tsum txawj sib zam.

Qhov no yog qhov kuv nyiam tshaj thiab. Kuv los xav li Yeebtsim hais thiab. Yog tias nws ua kuv chim lawm, kuv yuavtsum uv/nyiaj tsis txhob qhia nws tias kuv chim rau nws heev. Yog thaum kuv ho chim tiag tiag zais tsis taus lawm, yuavtsum tau qhia nws kiag kom nws los zaum ntawm kuv ib sab thiab qhia rau nws tias kuv tsis nyiam lolus uas nws hais ntawd, vim mob kuv lub siab lawm. Yog nws txawj xav, nws yuav thov zamchim rau kuv. Yog nws tsis txawj xav, nws yuav tsis thov zamchim los tsuav nws paub tias kuv tsis nyiam lolus nws hais ntawd lawm ces nyaj lwm zaus nws yuav paub ceevfaj lawm thiab.
Kuv yuavtsum tsis muab qhov nov los hais mus hais los ua kom nws ntxub kuv. Yav tag ces cia tag mus lawm xwb, txhob muab los hais dua thiaj tsis muaj kev dub muag.

Ib txhia mas nyiam tham kiag thaum tshiab tshiab uas hais lus sib phiv ntawd, tabsis yuavtsum yog ob leeg siab ntev ib yam thiaj muaj kev sib totaub zoo.
Yog tias ib tug siab luv luv, ibtug siab ntev, tus siab ntev yuavtsum tau zam rau tus siab luv kom nws lub siab txias tso mam rovqab rub nws los zaum tham thiaj tsis muaj kev dub muag thiaj tsis dhau mus ua kev sibceg mog.
Yog yus yeej hlub nws tag siab nrho, yuavtsum muaj kev forgive and forget thiaj li zoo.

5. Yuav tsum muaj kev sib tham kom nkag siab (Communicate)
Sib tham li neb sib tham tau. Nws yuav sib rub tau neb los sib ze thiab sib nkag siab. Tej kev sib tham muaj nqis tshaj ces twb yog thaum koj nrog koj tus khub tham ua ke.

Qhov yuav sibtham kom muaj kev sib nkagsiab no nws tseemceeb heev rau neb lub neej. Neb ib niamtxiv yuavtsum muaj kev sib ntseeg siab, sib qhia siab, thiab coj ncaj ncees txhob mloog lus xaiv lus cua es txhob hais lus iab lus ntsim siab chob yus tus hlub ces yeej tsis muaj teebmeem rau kev hais lus kom sib nkagsiab li.
Peb Hmoob muaj ib lolus haistias, “Txhob tua twm rau kuv cab.”
Ib txhia mas yog koj tua twm rau nws cab lawm ces nws ciali cab kiag lawm ntag. Yog thaum nws cab twm lawm, koj yuavtsum tau rovqab ua zoo hais kom nws nkagsiab koj lub ntsiab lus, neb thiaj muaj kev kajsiab mog.


6. Tso siab rau (Be)
Txoj kev sib hlub kom nyob ruaj nreeg yuav tsum yog kev ntseeg siab thiab muaj txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub. Yeej tsis muaj leej twg zoo tag tag ces koj yuav tsum accept tau nws li nws yog nws rau qhov phem thiab qhov zoo ntawm nws. Txoj kev ntseeg koj tus hlub yuav ua koj tus hlub yog ib qhov tseem ceeb tshaj.

Yog muaj kev sibntseeg siab ntawm nkawd ib khub niamtxiv es niam tsis txhob mloog lus taug xaiv, txiv tsis txhob mloog tu ub tus no dag es txhob muab los ua lus sib chob ces yog nkawd muaj kev sibntseeg siab thiab sibhlub lawm, ib leeg yuavtsum tso siab tau rau ib leeg xwb xwb li. Yog xav kom lub neej mus taus deb thiab yuav ua niamtxiv sibhlub mus kom tag ib txhis ces koj los yuavtsum ntseeg kuv thiab tso siab tau rau kuv ib leeg hos kuv los yuavtsum tso siab tias koj yuav pab kuv tuav lub neej kom ruaj ntseg xwb.

Ib qhov kev tso siab tau yuavtsum yog muaj kev sib pab txhua lub sijhawm, tsis hais kev noj kev haus, kev tu vaj tu tsev, kev tu metub mentxhais, ob leeg yuavtsum muaj kev sib pab thiab. Koj tsis khoom los kuv ua ntag, kuv tsis khoom los yog koj khoom thiab pab tau ces pab kom tiav hlo li mas thiaj sib tso siab tau naj.

7. Yuav tsum txawj tuaj sib ntsib ib nrab kev (compromise)
Txhua tus yuav tsum txawj compromise nyob tau nws lub neej. Koj yuav ua li koj lub siab xav thiab ntshaw los ntawv lwm tus kom koj zoo siab rau koj xwb tsis tau. Yog koj txawj compromise ces tus neeg ntawd yuav txawj muab tau txoj kev kaj siab rau koj thiab.

Again, qhov nov los yeej yog los ntawm kev txawj hais lus zoo thiab muaj kev sibhlub, sibntseeg siab ces hais lus muaj kev sib haum xeeb xwb. Siv tej lus zoo xwb txhob siv lus phem, lus zoo muaj ntau hais tsis tag, thov txhob cem tej lus phem phem cuab rau tsov tom thiab txhob cem piv rau tus ub tus no xwb ces yeej yuavtsum sib haum xwb.

8. Muaj caij rau neb (Take a break)
Tseg ib sijhawm rau neb ua ke. Lub sijhawm ntawd tsis yog yuav los siv nyiaj. Tsuav muaj ib lub sijhawm rau neb los nyob uake tham xwb yeej zoo lawm..

Wow! Kuv xav tias ntshe kuv thiaj xav li xwb no es Yeebtsim los kuj xav li thiab lod?

Yog mas, qhov zoo ces yuavtsum nrhiav sijhawm los nyob uake thiab sibtham kom muaj kev sib nkagsiab rau tej haujlwm hauv tsev, tej menyuam, tej kev ua noj ua haus, kev them nujnqes, kev mus saib kwvtij neejtsa, thiab kev lomzem uas ob leeg xav tau.

Yog ua tau, ib hlis neb yuavtsum take off work ib hnub los nyob uake. Mus ncig tablaj uake, mus noj mov uake, mus uasi uake, hmmm…, mloog nkauj sibhlub uake.

Qhov nov yog ob leeg li kev uake kom away from tej menyuam thiab tej phoojywg.

Hos muaj ib qhov uas take a break nyob ibleeg tsis nrog leejtwg thiab. Muaj tej lub sijhawm yuav tau nyob ibleeg ntsiagto thiab kom yus tau kev tsaugzog lossis so away from tej uas yus niaj hnub pom lawm kom yus txhob mob hlwb thiab hos.

Tos kuv hais li los muaj tej lub sijhawm kuv tus hlub hais rau kuv tias thov cia nws mus tsaugzog li 2 sij es thaum twg kuv ua mov siav lawm mam tsa nws los noj mov no na. Ces kuv cia nws mus pw li nws lub siab nyiam mas.

9. Yam ceem ceeb (special)
Koj yuav ua dabtsi los xij, tabsis nco ntsoov txog hnub tseem ceeb. Nco txog hnub yug los sis anniversary ( hnub sib yuav). Nws yog ib qhov ceem ceeb heev es yuav pab neb txoj kev hlub loj zuj zus. Ua li nov yuav ua qhia neb tias neb lub neej tseem yuav muaj qhov zoo siab nplua mia txiv tuaj no.

Yeebtsim aj, ntshe koj yuav tau tuaj qhia koj tijlaug, kom nws paub tias hnubtwg yog kuv hnub yug thiab hnubtwg yog wb hnub sibyuav no pod, hehehee, vim nws tsis ncoqab li naj, hehehee

Hais txog qhov nov ces kuv xav tias nyias laus laus nyias lawm os, xav kom nws paub nws xwb yus tsis xav qhia. Yus los ib yam thiab, txhob cia nws ntshaw ntshaw thiab tos tos nws hnubyug ib hnub tsaus ntuj es tsis hnov yus ib lolus hlub li naj. Yog muaj kev sibhlub tiag, yuavtsum txhob cia nws ntshaw thiab tu siab, koj hais puas yog?

10. Tsis txhob xav tias tsam nws tsis paub (Don’t underestimate)
Txawm koj tus hlub ua tej yam me me kev zoo siab rau koj xwb los koj yuav tsum zoo siab hlo thiab txhawb nws. Tsis txhob xav tias nws ua tsis tau dabtsi li. Yog koj xav li ces yuav ua rau neb txoj kev hlub mluas. Txawj txhawb nws yuav ua rau neb zoo siab thiab paub tias nws los yog neeg tseem ceeb thiab yuav pab rau neb lub neej zoo. Neb yuav nyob hauv lub nkoj niam txiv zoo siab hlub mus tag tiam.

Wsm…, yog lawm. Yuavtsum ncontsoov ua nws tsaug rau txhuayam tsis hais loj thiab me uas nws ua pub rau koj. Nws ua tau zoo thiab tsis zoo los koj yuavtsum ua nws tsaug thiab qhuas nws, txhawb nws lub zog kom nws zoosiab tias koj pom nws tes haujlwm thiab tej kev pab thiab no.

Piv li tias nws ua tau zaub tsis qab npaum li koj ua, tabsis koj yuavtsum noj luagntxhi thiab qhuas tias nws mas ua zaub qab kawg li. Ua nws tsaug tias nws ua zaubmov qab heev. Nco nws tej txiajntsig thiab hais lus zoo txhawb nws lub zog. Yog nws noj mov tsis qab vim muaj kev ntxovsiab rau tej menyuam, koj los hais mov pub nws noj thiab nrog nws noj, qhuas tias qab heev kom nrog koj noj uake. Yog nws tsis xav noj mov, nug seb nws mob qhovtwg, kom nws pw rau koj muab nws zaws/zuaj ibce kom ntxhee. Coj nws mus tablaj, mus yuav tejyam qab rau nws noj. Hais lus zoo nplij nws lub siab, qhia rau nws tias koj hlub thiab txhawj nws heev.

Tej lus zoo yuav txhawb tau nws lub zog thiab nyob luagntxhi nrog koj mus ib txhis mog.
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